When Love consumes you !

It was an early morning when I woke up suddenly, not really awake and with a heavy head and realised the sun is yet to rise and the moon is about to set. I felt as if I was in the middle of no where, not able to understand what was happening exactly.It was raining, yes it was raining and yet there was a pin drop silence I could feel.I could not recall at all what had happened before I fell asleep. After few seconds, I stood up and tried to walk and when I did so I asked myself, what am I walking towards to, where do I want to go, what do I need and why am I so terrified.It was not a good feeling, a tear rolled down my eye and I felt pain, anger, sadness and discomfort and as I took my first step I saw you standing in front of me like a ray of light and hope.. Even before I could gather my senses and really wake up, my tears turned into a smile and I came running to you, hugged you so tight like all I have got is you and you hugged me back, held me and kept me close to you for a while and there was a sunrise falling on my eyes. I woke up and realised that we had a fight last night. We hurt each other so badly and cried a lot because we thought that this was the end of it. We spoke, we tried and we gave up and sat in silence as well. It was a long night and at some point I was too tired and fell asleep and you watched me sleep. I could remember you whispering something into my ears, something like, "I am leaving". Those words had transformed into a nightmare which took me to a world of sadness. Even it was momentary for a few minutes but I could exactly feel what would it be without you . Neither you could leave nor I could let you go because we never imagined a world without each other. We get hurt, we cry but in the end we can rely only on each other. This is how you feel when Love consumes you. There is a little danger, there is a little adventure. There is passion and there is acceptance. When Love consumes you, you feel that fire which can either burn you if you go against its flames or it can give you warmth, heat on those cold snowy days. Being in love is different but when love consumes you, you feel different. you feel complete, you feel divine.

The Guys' Rules­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­ !! ;)

 Finally , the guys' side of the story.


( I must admit, it's pretty good.)
We always hear " the rules"
From the female side.

Now here are the rules from the male side.Please note.. these are all numbered "1"
ON PURPOSE!

1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem.
See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry,we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really .
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as CRICKET, the shotgun formation,or golf.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this.

1. All points are marked as point no. (1), becoz all points are equally Important.
There is no thing as More Important or less Important.

Pass this to as many men as you can - to give them a laugh.
Pass this to as many women as you can - to give them a bigger laugh :) :)

Source - some social networking website.

Where is the finish line?

 "See, we are all middle class people. Education only is your property. We do not have much money and all. Study properly and get into a good job. Father and I both wanted good education. We only didn’t get, at least we want you to study well and shine.”


If mother is doing blackmail like this means, what else I can do? See I know ki I also have dreams. Yes boss, I want to play cricket for India, it is a big dream for me. But think practically. Life is not a game ok? I have to have good “education” first.


So I took science group. Arey how can I go and tell ki, “No no, I want to take commerce group”? I am not from Delhi man! Then mother is pointing to that stupid good-for-nothing secretly-adult-movie-watching cousin and saying, “He is also in the same class, no? Then how come he always scores more than you?”


That he himself does not know. I am also studying so hard to score “centum” in board exam. One two-mark question I made a mistake that too it was not from the textbook. What I can do for that?


See boss, I told you before, I want to play cricket for India. I also want to play guitar like mad. I want to write books. I want to take photography. Arey I thought ki, I can do all this once I join engineering college. I can be professionally qualified and side-by-side I can do what I always wanted to do. I thought ki, once I start playing well in the college team, slowly I can make it to the national team. Once I join the college, I will have all the time in the world to play.


Best is the engineering college. They didn’t have any cricket team itself! How the hell was I supposed to know that? They only told ki they have 100-acre campus with excellent facilities and 100% placement record and all. Now they are asking us to do Paper Presentation all the time! For 3 years I didn’t understand itself what that means. Industrial visits, unit tests, pre-model, model exams are there and life is very busy in engineering college.


Everybody is running like a mad dog. We are all middle-class people only. My parents have taken so much loan for the studies. “In front of relatives, you have to come up in life and show them”, mother is always saying. So I decided ki life is definitely not a game. Passion and all ok, but I also have to run. Once I finish professional course, I can do what I want, nobody can question me then na?


Boss, in today’s world anybody can become engineer ok? How can I stop with only one degree yaar? See let me be very honest. I am very patriotic. I don’t want to go to US and all. So I am doing MBA here itself. What is there? Everybody is saying ki MBA with science background is a very very rare combination. If I have such strong degrees as backup, I can boldly try out new things. I can even start playing guitar after finishing B-School. I will be able to apply my management skills and even find an good investor for my albums no?


What you are saying? Campus recruitment is going on. Everybody is attending it! How can I not attend these interviews man? Starting salary itself is in six-digits! This is a golden opportunity for people like us in the middle-class to come out of the rat-race! Once I earn for two years, I would have closed all my loans and I can write or sing or dance or do whatever I like. It is my life and who will stop me then?


Boss, what I told before and all forget. Now home loan is also there (it provides solid tax benefits man!), if I say I want to quit job means my mother will go mad, especially when I am about to get married. This is the time to earn ok? If I think of enjoying now and doing what I like means later on I only have to suffer in life. What to do? We are all middle class people. We have to be happy with what we have.


See I only am not able to do what I want. But all that I missed I will definitely make my child do it. It is a promise.

Source - http://thelocalteaparty.com/post/7122903456